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It’s perfectly okay to feel a little stressed now and again - when you have a tight deadline, for example, or are finding it difficult to cope with being placed under pressure. Short bursts of the ‘fight or flight’ hormone cortisol aren’t bad for you.
But if levels are high for a long time it can impact your health and your enjoyment of life. So if you’ve been feeling stressed for more than a few weeks, it’s best to look for help.
The symptoms of stress can vary from person to person and depend on the situation. Stress can affect you both emotionally and physically, and it can also influence the way you behave. You might recognise the signs of stress straight away, but sometimes you might experience symptoms before realising you’re stressed.
Some of the first symptoms you might identify as signs of stress might be physical, such as an upset stomach, tiredness or headaches. When we feel stressed, we often have difficulty sleeping and eating well. A lack of sleep and poor diet can affect our physical health, which in turn can have an impact on how we feel emotionally.
When we feel stressed, our bodies respond by producing hormones in what is sometimes called 'fight or flight' response. Once a threat is detected, our bodies respond automatically, and the physical changes that take place can make you feel unwell and can have long-lasting effects on your health.
Feelings of stress can be due to one big thing happening in your life or a build-up of lots of smaller things.
Research indicates that isolation, inequality, consumerism, being disconnected from meaningful work, long working hours, and being disconnected from the natural environment can all cause stress. There are many things in everyday life that can also cause stress, for example raising children, not getting enough sleep, commuting, and the constant availability of smartphones and their use early in the morning and late in the evening.
When we’re feeling stressed, we tend to become increasingly focused on threats, problems and danger. When this happens, our senses become more alert to sounds, sights and smells. The quickest way to help reduce our stress levels is to engage our senses in a more positive manner.
Here are a few helpful tips to help you manage and reduce your stress levels:
Make a list of the things you have to do and prioritise what is urgent. If you try to do too much at once, you can end up feeling under even more pressure. By prioritising what is urgent, you can feel more in control and can see your achievements more clearly. Try and identify the time of day when you’re at your best. For example, if you are more of a morning person than an evening person, do the essential tasks that require the most energy in the morning. Organising your time and creating a routine may help you to feel more on top of any tasks you’re undertaking.
Cut yourself some slack and ask a friend or family member to help with some of your daily tasks to alleviate some of the stress. You’ll find that things will become more bearable if you can do things at your pace.
Make sure that you schedule a bit of 'me time' into your day to focus on you. Some people find that mindfulness apps work for them, others enjoy yoga, reading a book, or listening to music. Whatever represents "me time" for you – and it’s helpful to have more than one thing – it’s important that the activity holds your attention so you’re really helping to ‘switch off’ and stop worrying and ruminating.
Talking things through with a person you trust could help too, and might show just how much you’re coping with at once. Having a good support network can help you see things differently and ease your stresses.
In certain areas of the UK you can self-refer to ieso. If you are unable to refer directly please speak to your GP to see if ieso is available. If you'd like to find out about other mental health support options available in your area, visit the NHS website.